The Fortitude Chronicle: A Weekly Digest of Athletic Determination

3 Things No One Tells You About Success

The Fortitude Chronicle: A Weekly Digest of Athletic Determination

Welcome to The Fortitude Chronicle, a weekly newsletter devoted to helping you enhance mental fortitude and conquer life's challenges.

In this week's edition, I discuss the three things no one tells you about success.

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For the Relentless Mind

3 Things No One Tells You About Success

What I've Learned Lately

Some weeks rearrange your understanding of everything. This was one of them.

Three conversations, three different worlds—sports psychology, leadership development, personal transformation. Each guest approached human potential from their own angle, but they kept arriving at the same uncomfortable conclusions. The kind that make you question assumptions you didn't even know you held.

Here's what won't leave me alone.

The Prison of Excellence

Elite performance creates its own psychological trap.

The better you become, the less satisfying success feels. What once energized you now feels routine. Victory transforms from celebration into expectation. You're crushing every metric that matters while feeling empty inside because excellence becomes "just doing your job."

This is the curse of competence—when talent becomes a burden instead of a gift.

But the most successful people I've studied understand something counterintuitive: they're simultaneously delusional and brutally honest. They need irrational confidence to attempt impossible things while maintaining ruthless assessment of their current reality. Most people choose a side—blind optimism or harsh realism. Winners embrace the contradiction.

They know they're not ready for what they're attempting, and they attempt it anyway. They see their limitations clearly, and they believe they can transcend them. This tension, not comfort, creates breakthrough.

The trap isn't high standards. It's expecting external achievement to create internal satisfaction. If you need the gold medal to feel valuable, you'll never feel valuable enough. The feeling you're chasing has to exist first, not follow.

The Choice Masquerading as Fate

Most limitations aren't permanent features—they're recurring decisions.

We tell ourselves stories about what we can't do, who we can't become, how we can't change. "I'm not a leader." "I'm not good with people." "I'm just not motivated." These sound like honest self-assessment. They're actually elaborate justifications for choosing comfort over growth.

The distance between "I can't" and "I choose not to" contains your entire future.

Your current identity isn't fixed architecture—it's accumulated choices. The person you are today reflects patterns you've reinforced through repetition. If you don't like who you are, you can choose differently. But first you have to stop pretending your patterns are personality instead of practice.

Leadership isn't a genetic gift—it's the decision to take responsibility beyond yourself. Confidence isn't inherited—it's built through action despite fear. Motivation isn't a feeling you wait for—it's a discipline you develop regardless of mood.

The question isn't whether you're capable. It's whether you're willing.

The Insight That Fades

Understanding changes nothing. Action changes everything.

You can have profound realizations, emotional breakthroughs, crystal-clear moments of seeing exactly what needs to shift. None of it matters if you don't move immediately. Awareness is perishable—use it or lose it.

I've watched the same person have the same epiphany multiple times because they treated insight like entertainment instead of instruction. They feel inspired, nod along, then return to identical patterns. The revelation becomes just another interesting idea instead of a catalyst for change.

The window between seeing clearly and acting decisively is razor-thin. Clarity fades faster than you think. When you understand something important about yourself, you have moments—not days—to build systems around that understanding before it dissolves back into good intentions.

Hunt for what you want to create, not what you want to avoid. Direct your attention with purpose. But don't just hunt—capture what you find and put it to work immediately.

The Deeper Pattern

These insights weave together into something larger: most people operate far below their potential not because they lack ability, but because they're working from broken frameworks about how performance, identity, and change actually function.

High performers struggle because they misunderstand satisfaction. Average performers stay stuck because they misunderstand capability. Everyone fails to transform because they misunderstand how change works.

The solution isn't more information—it's better frameworks applied with relentless consistency.

Some conversations shift your perspective. Some weeks shift your trajectory. The difference is what you do in the space between understanding and forgetting.

What you've learned matters less than what you'll do with it before it becomes another good idea you used to have.

Two Quotes

  1. “The best people possess a feeling for beauty, the courage to take risks, the discipline to tell the truth, the capacity for sacrifice. Ironically, their virtues make them vulnerable; they are often wounded, sometimes destroyed.” — Ernest Hemingway 

  2. “Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men;

    Who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given;

    Than to explore the power they have to change it.

    Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion.

    Impossible isn’t a declaration. It’s a dare.”

    -Muhammad Ali

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 Best Regards,

Colin Jonov, Founder & CEO Athletic Fortitude

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